21 Solutions To 21 Relationship Bloopers [Article]
21 Solutions To 21 Relationship Bloopers Will Have You Smiling, Laughing, And On The Path To Loving The Man Of Your Life.
As a Licensed Professional Counselor with years of experience counseling both men and women who struggle with serious dating and relationship issues, my respect for women has gone through the roof.
If you’re like the women I counsel, you probably share their characteristics: you’re smart, you’re responsible, and you look forward to sharing your life with the man of your dreams.
And if you’re like the women I counsel, you’ve probably discovered that a whole lot of men are more interested in spending the night with you than sharing their lives with you.
Because of that unfortunate fact, you’ve probably experienced a few awful dates and you might have suffered from a broken heart or two.
21 Solutions To 21 Relationship Bloopers won’t heal past broken hearts, but it has the potential to prevent broken hearts in the future. More than that, it has the potential to help you find and keep the love of your life.
21 Solutions To 21 Relationship Bloopers is not your typical advice column filled with fluff and puff. I’m not going to insult your intelligence by telling you to stay away from spaghetti and other messy foods on your first date. Who thinks up that stuff?
21 Solutions To 21 Relationship Bloopers packs a powerful punch with pithy solutions to the bloopers women most often make in dating relationships.
Take a look at the solution to blooper number 3:
Always Being Available At A Moment’s Notice—
You just as well stand on a street corner and hold up a sign that reads: “I’ve got no value, no interests, and no life.” If that’s true, then go ahead and say “Yes” when a guy calls you for a movie that’s starting in ten minutes. Chances are the girl he really wanted to go out with told him “No way” because she has a life. So he’s settling for you because . . . well . . . you don’t. The solution is easy: Get a life. And let him know that you and your time are important so he better plan ahead.
And here’s the solution to blooper number 18:
Losing your identity—
Visualize your life as a circle. Visualize your guy’s life as a separate circle. Now slowly bring your circles together until your circles intersect. If they don’t intersect very much, then you’ve got an acquaintance. If they intersect more, you’ve got a friend. More? You’ve got a boyfriend. If they intersect completely? You’ve got a problem. Healthy couples had vibrant lives before they became a couple. And after they’ve become a couple, they still have interests, activities, and friends separate from their partners. You don’t have to take up bowling. And he doesn’t have to quilt. Couple or not, you’re still two people with two hearts and two lives. Two circles, not one.
And perhaps the biggest blooper of all— ;-) — number 22:
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Smile, Laugh, And Love With 21 Solutions To 21 Relationship Bloopers (Article: 540 Words).